1 Corinthians 7:1-16 
Discern what God is saying to us today.
A matter of functional convenience. 
He saw a marriage as a sacred relationship, not as a mere transaction.
Where did they get this idea? 
This kind of extremism doesn't work. 
 
1. Make it your priority to look after the needs of the other.
  • It should be applied to every aspect of the marriage.
  • It's my job to look after your needs. 
  • You First mind set.
  • We need to be willing to serve one another in love.
  • Make it your priority.
2. Remember the Importance of Me-Time.
  • It gives the opportunity to think through your priorities and evaluate your progress.
  • Time-Alone-With-God
3. Commit to Finding a Way to Make It Work
  • What if I tried a little harder, and stayed a little longer?
  • The influence of the believing spouse.
  • The hard truth is that marriage is simple but not easy.
  • The truth is marriage is an evolution of love. 
  • "That's a you-problem, not a me-problem. Deal with it, because I'm not changing."
  • It all comes down to a we-problem.
  • If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. (Romans 12:18)
  • I will not be the reason there is unresolved conflict in this family. 
  • In order for a marriage to continue and grow strong, it must flow in forgiveness.